GeorgiaVisitation and Parenting Time
If you or someone you know is dealing with custody issues in
a divorce or custody modification case, you must listen to this episode of
Divorce Team Radio as Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm
of Meriwether & Tharp, LLC, discusses issues, challenges and pitfalls he
regularly sees as parents fight to protect their parenting time with children.
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today. We break things down to what we call four core areas of a divorce. If you've
listened before, you know that if you've gone to our website, you know that. So
what are the core areas again? Custody issues, child support, alimony, division
of property and debt. So we've talked about custody. I want to do more of a
deep dive today on what is commonly known as visitation, parenting, time,
visitation, there might be other terms, but those are the two most common.
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So we've dealt with and discussed at length here in
Georgia and remember we Merriweather and Thorpe, we are based out of Georgia.
So a lot of what I'm talking about is based on Georgia law. Will there be
similarities? Absolutely nationwide, the standard is best interest of the child
and there's only so many ways that you can determine or come up with
determinations relating to custody and parenting time. So again, a lot of
similarities, but as I often say, if you are dealing with an issue like this,
absolutely look to and speak with an attorney who practices in your state. Not
only that even practices in your more specific area because those are going to
be the people who have a better knowledge of not just the law of your state but
the judges that your issue could go in front of. Alright, so we've talked about
in the past custody and OCGA official code of Georgia annotated 19 dash nine
dash three.
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Title of that is establishment and review of child custody
and visitation. So basically that code section talks about best interest of the
child. It talks about a whole bunch of things. It talks about a lot of, and
I've gone into a lot of this before so I'm not going to do it here, but it goes
into a lot of the relevant factors that courts can and should look at when
dealing with these issues that the courts should look at. Things like love,
affection, bond and emotional ties, existing between parents and children,
between a child and siblings, capacity and disposition of parents to give love
and affection. There's a whole bunch of factors. Well this code section not
only deals with that issue of custody, it also deals with visitation, also
commonly referred to as parenting time. So custody, when you start thinking
about custody, you start thinking of it and really there's two very basic level
issues. You're going to deal with what we call physical custody and legal
custody. So legal custody has to do really with decision making authority.
Alright? When major decisions have to be made, who gets to make it, who has tie
breaking authority on the major issues has to do with access to documents and
specialists and teachers and reports and all of these things related to and
pertaining to a child.
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Physical custody has to do really with where are the
children going to go? Who is going to be that primary physical custodian? What
kind of a custody arrangement will be in place basically? Now again, we're
talking about then what is the visitation? What is that parenting time going to
look like? So I want to go into that in a lot more detail. And so let's start
also with something that I think a lot of people have a hard time with and
grapple with when they're dealing with this kind of a case. And oftentimes, I'm
not going to lie, it's men dads, but the age of a child, this goes back to best
interest of the child. The age of a child is absolutely going to be important.
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What is good for a 10-year-old? What would be appropriate
for a 10-year-old, 12-year-old, 14-year-old? I'm not just picking even numbers,
but as the child gets older, what is good, what would be healthy in terms of
parenting time for that older child may not be healthy for a very, very young
child. And I'm going to go into this a little bit later in more detail, but
it's not just all of these factors that I was talking about that I've gone over
before that you could read about in 19 dash nine dash three. And if you're
going through a case like this, I highly recommend don't just assume your
attorney knows this. I mean your attorney does. You need to educate yourself.
It's really, it's a great list that's going to really help you identify what
you need to be doing, what evidence you need to be gathering to help your
attorney, and also just things you need to be doing in terms of how you parent.
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So going back to age, what is good for a 10-year-old is
likely not appropriate or at least in the eyes of a court, may not be
appropriate for a newborn let's say, or a one-year-old. And that's something
that some fathers, probably a lot of fathers, they have a problem with that
concept. But you need to go into this understanding that when the court is
looking at factors, the age of the child will impact the needs of that child.
And like I said, we're going to go into more detail, but the bottom line is parenting
time. There are a whole bunch of different ways to deal with it and generally
speaking, I would also say this, be realistic in what you're asking for and
fighting for consider. Do not ignore the needs of your child. You have to think
not just about what you want. You have to think about what can my child handle
If you do those types of things, if you analyze things in that kind of a light,
I think you're going to have an easier time coming up with a solution that can
hopefully keep you out of prolonged litigation and most importantly, you are
prioritizing the needs of your child or children.
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So you're going to create hopefully a much healthier
situation during the divorce and post-divorce.
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The last thing I'll talk about this segment is I want to
deal with this early on I was debating maybe we push it, but in a concept when
it relates to parenting time is that 14-year-old election, which is also set
forth in 1993. The election is kind of unique and again this is Georgia law,
but at 14 it's actually at age 11 it starts, but at 14 the court gives a lot of
weight to the opinion of a child. And so this goes back to age. There is a
legal recognition of the fact that a child at a certain age has an opinion and
the court wants to honor that opinion and in essence not the request, but well,
the election is a request, but the request of that child.
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And so when we're dealing with visitation, when you're
thinking about all these different factors, when you're thinking about the
needs of your child now you also have to start thinking about what does my
child want? How old is my child? Does my child have an opinion and am I going
to be able to honor that opinion? Just because there's an election doesn't mean
it's an appropriate choice. I've seen cases where unfortunately a child elects,
but the election, it's for the wrong reason and it may not be the healthiest
situation if the child were to live primarily in that home. Alright, when we
come back, I want to go and do a deep dive into different types of parenting
schedules. This comes up all the time and I think it's important that we go
over what some of those options are. We'll be right back.
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team rate. So today we're talking about parenting time. It's that component of
custody in a case sometimes referred to as parenting time, sometimes visitation
and it is a part of that physical custody determination. Where is the child
going to be on a daily, weekly, monthly, yearly basis? Who will be the primary
custodial parent who will be a secondary custodial parent? What is the schedule
going to look like?
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And we talk generally about that, but now I want to go
into possible parenting schedules and when they might be appropriate, not
appropriate. So let's start with what I'm going to call the traditional kind of
parenting schedule traditional. By that I mean what is historically one of
probably the most common that you hear about most of you listening, you
probably have already heard this and standard or traditional is going to be
every other weekend, every other weekend from a, let's say a Friday to a Sunday
and sometimes there will even be during the week, let's say a midweek dinner.
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So traditional would be that traditional would be that
Friday to Sunday midweek dinner and then we have to deal with holidays and
usually holidays we're not talking every single holiday. I looked at a schedule
once or a calendar once and I think every day is designated as a holiday for
something and so we're not dealing with every single holiday. You know what I'm
talking about? It's the big ones. So traditional will be that every other
weekend, midweek splitting of the holidays, the major ones. And by the way,
when you're dealing with holidays, it's not for me or anyone to tell you which
holidays are important to you.
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There are some standard ones here in the United States
that Thanksgiving, Christmas, some of the long weekends, Memorial Day Labor
Day. So there are a number of sort of what I'm going to call standard ones, but
that doesn't mean that those are important to you and it also doesn't mean that
there aren't other ones that might be important to you that you want added.
That's just part of your negotiation. You just need to make sure it's included.
So now traditional is pretty minimal, but it doesn't need to be just that.
Oftentimes there's more. So I would then call it extended traditional where
instead of Friday to Sunday, well it could be Friday to Monday morning, it
could be Thursday to Sunday, it could be Thursday to Monday morning, and I
often will tell people, you just need to think of it in terms of the number of
days per week and the more you're adding on, the closer you're getting to that
50 50 mark, but extended traditional, you're just adding a little bit more
time.
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You're extending that time, that midday or midweek dinner
that I was talking about that could even be made into an overnight and
sometimes pushing from Sunday to let's say Monday morning. I've seen parents
where they actually want that. They appreciate that because think of it this
way. Let's say you are the non-custodial parent, meaning you don't have custody
for a weekend and your child goes visits now is coming back Sunday night. That
means some of the extra burden is on you. You are feeding them. I mean of
course labor of love, I get it. You're feeding them, making sure they're
bathed, getting them into bed, waking them up the next morning, getting them to
school. Well some people will say, listen, I'm good with pushing to Monday
morning because guess what, if all I'm doing is getting a child back at eight
o'clock, let's say could be 6, 7, 8, and all of that responsibility falls on me
and then I'm just putting 'em into bed and then I'm getting 'em up in the
morning.
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I've seen some parents say I want that responsibility. I
mean I want that regularity for our child and I've seen others say, why do I
have to do all that work? They might as well just stay over at the other
parents and then that parent will be responsible for getting them up in the
morning and getting them to school. So it's just what is a priority to you?
What's important to you? Of course your child is important, of course having
them with you is important, but you're talking about a schedule that could, depending
on your age of your child, could be upwards of 17, 18 years long. So really
we're just talking about what is going to make sense and what's going to be a
healthy solution for your child. Now, extended, traditional can get that's
still with one, a primary one, a secondary custodial parent, what about joint?
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There's different ways to deal with that. So joint
physical custody can be week on, week off, literally let's say Friday to Friday
and you'd have to deal with pickups and drop-offs and all that kind of stuff.
I'll go into that in a little bit, but you're dealing with just a week on week
off, Friday to Friday. Now that can be changed a little bit. Sometimes what
parties will do is they will again do sort of a midweek dinner or even a
midweek overnight just to break it up a little bit so a child isn't going seven
full days without seeing the other parent. Now, other ways to deal with joint
physical custody, there's something we call a two two five five. I've also
heard it referred to as a 2, 2 3. Now that's an interesting one. You don't have
the long stretch, which is something a lot of judges like.
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And so what it means is a two three is one of the parents,
let's just say the mom. A mom will have every single Monday, Tuesday, the dad
will have every single Wednesday and Thursday and then they will alternate
alternate weekends. So how does that play out? 2, 5 5, 1 party has Monday,
Tuesday, that's two. The other party has Wednesday, Thursday, that's two. Let's
say that same person has the weekend, so they really got Wednesday, Thursday,
Friday, Saturday, Sunday, that's the five, so it was really two. Then five. The
next person Monday gets Monday, Tuesday, other person Wednesday, Thursday, and
then the weekend starts the Monday, Tuesday person gets the weekend. So they
get Friday, Saturday, Sunday, Monday, Tuesday. So it plays out to be a 2, 5 5
or you can just break it into the seven and it's two, two and the three for the
weekend and then you alternate.
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So that's another way to deal with joint physical custody.
There's some other ways, but I'm not going to sit here and say that they are
ideal, healthy or they should be an option. There are parties who will say,
well, let's just do day on day off. There are a few judges I think that would
approve that. And remember also you just because you think of it doesn't mean
the court will order it. It is the court's job to determine what's in the
child's best interest. So just because you think something might be good
doesn't mean the court will agree.
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So a day on day off that is a lot of back and forth that
is very disruptive. I do not recommend that at all. I understand you love your
child, want to be with your child and have your child with you as often as
possible. That is incredibly disruptive and I've seen too many cases where the
child kind of rebels against that, so I would not recommend it. I also would
not do it month by month. I've seen parties say, well, what about month on,
month off that also, that is a long period of time between visits and that can
be really confusing for a child. I'm not a therapist, but that can be
incredibly, incredibly confusing, especially at young ages. When we get back, I
want to keep going into this parenting time and visitation and I want to go
into some other types of schedules and custody or visitation plans, things like
split custody, sole custody, supervised visitation. We'll go into all that when
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AM Monday mornings on WSB. Alright, so we're talking about visitation, parenting
time. If you're dealing with custody, you're dealing with this issue and there
are a bunch of different ways to deal with the issue of parenting time. Some of
them work, some of them don't. Some of them the courts like some of them the
courts won't agree to or order. So as I said in the first segment, you
constantly have to be thinking about not just what you want, you have to be
thinking unselfishly about what is going to be best for my child. So last
segment, we were talking about some of these different scheduling plans and
some of them traditional, extended, traditional, week on, week off, 2, 2, 5
fives and also some things that historically just do not work or probably are
not going to be very good for a child like day on, day off or a month on, month
off, one too short, meaning it's just too much back and forth and the other one
just too long, especially for young kids where it's like why haven't I seen
mommy or why haven't I seen daddy for 30 days?
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Does not happen often and my opinion, you're not going to
find many judges who will want to order that. So now let's talk about some of
these other visitation schedule types and other issues that come up. Let's
start with something called split custody. Now what is that? Well, it kind of
is in the name. You're not splitting a child. This is not King Solomon time.
What we're talking about with split custody is we're talking about situations
where two kids or more than one, you could have three and instead of a schedule
where all three of those children follow the same schedule, all three are with
parent one and then go over to parent two and every time there's a transition,
they're going together. Instead of that, you can have split custody. Let's just
use an example with two kids, boy and a girl, boy is with mom, girl is with dad
or vice versa. I'm just using an example. It doesn't matter and the dad will be
primary of one, mom will be primary of the other. You try and work it so that
basically the kids are together sometimes, but again, one is going to be
primary. Sometimes what we'll do is we'll say the weekends are with the one
parent, but during the week school, the one child is with dad. The one child is
with mom.
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Now is that traditional? Is that a regular occurrence? No.
Usually there's more going on, meaning it's not an issue of well, that'd be
fair, mom wants primary, dad wants primary, so let's just split the kids up.
Courts aren't going to do that because that's probably in a case where you have
two siblings who are close and remember I actually started reading some of
those factors again. Number two, if I remember correctly is affection and bond
and emotional tie between a child and siblings. The court's going to want to
keep them together, but sometimes that's not the best thing. Sometimes for many
different reasons, children need to be separated or it's actually a good thing
to have them separated. Kids aren't getting along, whatever the case might be
and that's when split custody might be appropriate.
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What about sole custody? Well, sole custody isn't, I'm not
going to sit here and say it's not common, but it isn't something that applies
in every case, sole custody, there's usually some deeper issues going on,
usually deeper issues. By that I mean one of the parents has some issues,
issues that a court would likely feel would interfere with maintaining the
child's health and welfare and things of that nature. The other parent is in
prison fairly certain they're not getting any custody rights. That means that
the parent who's not incarcerated would have sole custody, sole legal in that
situation, sole legal and sole physical custody and sole custody. Like I said,
that is really something I have parents who will be, they'll call and they'll
say, well, I'm angry at my spouse. I'm angry golfs all the time this and that
doesn't really help out around the house. I want sole custody. That's probably
not going to happen.
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Usually there is a safety component there. Prison's the
easy one. What about substance abuse? What about just general abuse of
behavior, abuse towards the spouse, abuse towards the children. Then of course
that could very well be not just appropriate but needed. It might be necessary
to maintain the best interest of that child. Now that flows into supervised
visitation. What is that? That's exactly what it sounds like. Your concerns
about that parent are so significant that there is a lack of trust that the
parent in question can be left alone unsupervised with a child to do so, would
jeopardize the health and welfare of that child. Does that happen a lot? Well,
statistically most cases it's not happening, but does it happen a lot too much?
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So you have supervised visitation. That is something and
there are so many complications related to that, but there is enough concern
that it is appropriate to have someone act as a supervisor during all visits.
Sometimes it's a relative, typically a relative of the person being supervised.
Too much conflict if you have the other party present, one of their relatives
to act as a supervisor. Not saying it can't happen, just not often. Sometimes
it's actually a service that will come in and act as a supervisor. I've also
seen churches step in to provide some level of supervision to help facilitate
the contact and if you are subject to that, then you just need to be thinking.
Meaning if you are the one being supervised, you need to be thinking what got
me to that point in the first place? I've seen it be abusive behavior. I have
anger management issues.
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I've seen it be substance abuse and usually there is a
plan. This will be in place until you can prove to the court that something has
been fixed. If it's substance abuse, you have successfully gone to therapy, you
can prove to the court that's no longer an issue. Well what about long
distance? Let's change it up a little bit. Long distance parenting time. Well
obviously you can't have a traditional or extended traditional or joint
physical custody arrangement. If you live in California and the kids live in
Georgia going to be kind of hard for you to get them to school every morning.
So that comes into play very often nowadays.
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So you're not going to have that normal traditional kind
of schedule. So then you have to start thinking about, okay, number one, what
times can the kids come to me? Usually that's going to fall maybe some extra
time during the summer and that's going to be also maybe holidays. But
secondary to that is, alright, well can you come into town? So what days or
what times can you come into town not make the kids travel in order to exercise
parenting time. It becomes a very non-traditional kind of arrangement and as
long as you are able to consider and keep in mind that all the traveling by a
child that's not healthy, that you'll be able to come up with something. We do
it all the time and usually, like I said, some of these longer holidays gives
you the opportunity to catch up on some of that time with your child. I'm going
to keep going into this a little bit and then when you come back let's talk
about things you need to be considering when we're dealing with these issues.
Be right back.
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Speaker 1 (33:55):
Welcome back. I'm Todd and I'm your host of Divorce Team
Radio, a show sponsored by the divorce and family law firm of Merriweather and
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them@divorceteamradio.com. So today I am going into and doing a deep dive of
parenting time, otherwise known as visitation. It's an aspect of physical
custody and if you're dealing with custody then you're dealing with parenting
time. It's not just what rights do you have to documents and experts and
coaches and whatever. That's legal custody. It's when do I get to see my child?
Different ways to deal with the issue and so we've gone into different types of
schedules. I've gone into basically you have that traditional, extended
traditional week on, week off kind of stuff. We've talked about split custody,
sole custody, supervised visitation. I could do shows on each one of those.
There's a lot to go over. We've talked about long distance and I've also talked
about some things not to do or to try not to do.
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Another thing that I wanted to go into before we start
going into some tips is I've also seen parents, especially as a child gets
older, try to add language that basically says either the child will decide or
you keep it very general and it's almost like, and the parents will agree, I'm
sort of doing air quotes on when each parent will spend time with the child and
I will tell you my opinion, my opinion don't do it. Sometimes when there are
behavior concerns, and I mean behavior by a parent, sometimes that language
will be put in because there is a real chance that the parent in question won't
get time. There may have been some just bad. I'm going to refer to it as bad
behavior by that parent and there's enough of a concern that some power is
being given to the child.
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If that's not the case, I do not recommend putting that
power in the hands of the child, and I am sorry for saying it, I mean the
power, but that decision making ability, my opinion and what I've seen
unfortunately is that when parties have done that and then they're knocking on
our door saying, Hey, how can we change it? Unfortunately, it's gotten to a
point where it just depends on where the child thinks they're going to be able
to get away with more, right? I've seen it be, well, I want to go over to mom's
because mom does X, Y, Z and I can get away with A, B, C, or I want to go to
dad because of that. He doesn't really supervise certain things or Mom, huh?
Mom yelled at me because I got a bad grade on a math test, so I'm going to go
over to dad's and dad didn't even ask about that test or vice versa. So I will
tell you the other thing is going to that the parents will agree, I do not like
those situations. You are assuming parents will agree and sometimes failure to
agree takes the form of, no, I don't agree. Sometimes it's more passive
aggressive, why won't you return my emails? Why won't you return my texts? Why
won't you talk to me about this? I've gone a day, a week, a month, sometimes a
lot longer and I haven't seen our child or children.
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I will tell you that a better way to deal with that
situation is I would rather a client of mine put in terms relating to parenting
time knowing you're not going to follow that plan, then be so general and
non-committal in terms of committing to a specific schedule. I'd rather you put
in extended basic, let's say or something than be so general that there's
nothing you can enforce. It's a lot easier for you to disregard the terms. And
I don't often say this because usually if there's a court order, I am telling
people follow the terms of the order, but when it comes to parenting time, if
the parents can agree to something more, something different, whatever, great.
If it's in the best interest of a child to be with a parent a little bit more
time, great, fantastic.
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But I'd rather you have that basic language in there, that
fallback position so that because I've seen it also, you start doing more, you
start doing different whatever, and then all of a sudden that rug gets yanked
out from under one or the other parent, I was doing all this more and then we
got into an argument, an argument or a fight over money asked for more money
and when I said no, I'm not going to do that, all of a sudden all of that extra
time went away. Well just think about how bad it is in those situations where
you don't even have good specific language regarding a schedule.
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So definitely do not recommend doing that. So things to
consider, first of all, and I hinted or touched on this before, understand it's
less about what you agree on and more about what a court will approve. That's
where attorneys come in and are helpful. Their parents, clients who come to us
all the time and they have these thoughts, Hey, I think we want to do this. I
talked to my spouse about X, Y, Z, and we hear what it is they're suggesting
and we have to look at them and go, in our professional opinion, it's probably
not a good thing for your child. But putting that aside, I don't even think
you're going to get a court to accept it.
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It is the court's duty to determine what's in the best
interest of a child. What that means as it relates to this topic is you can
agree on something, but the court could reject it and say, I'm not signing off
on that order. So you have to think about not just you, alright? You have to
think about what is going to be best for this child and secondary to is if I
think it's going to be best, what do I think the judge will do with this? Will
the judge actually sign off on this day on day off? You can try. I have a hard
time believing a court is going to feel that that is appropriate, especially
for young children. But like I said, think about what the court might agree on
or approve.
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Second, make sure you can exercise what you ask for. I've
seen too many people come in. Sometimes it is motivated by just their desire to
spend as much time with a child and sometimes it's motivated by things like
money. If I fight for something more than, let's say traditional, extended,
traditional, if I can get to joint, maybe I don't have to pay child support.
But then you look at work schedules and things of that nature, or you look at
the history of how much parenting you have actually done, how much time you
have spent taking care of a child's day-to-day needs, and it becomes pretty
clear what your motivation is and it also becomes clear as to what you might be
capable of doing in terms of parenting time. So make sure if you're asking for
something that you can actually do it. I've seen people who work six or even
seven days a week and they have non-traditional work schedules.
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They're just working at crazy hours and they come home and
they sleep during the day and they're working all night and they're like, I
want joint custody. And when I push them on the issue, it's like, well, I'll
hire somebody, I'll hire a babysitter. Well, I don't think you even need me to
tell you. If it's between a parent who is there to provide care and someone
who's really going to defer all of those responsibilities to a babysitter, it's
probably not going to fly with a court in terms of you fighting for joint
custody because the court's going to say you can't even do what you're asking
for. I've talked about this also, and it's going to be the last point that I
make because it is so important. Make sure you are a good co-parent. Alright,
co-parenting is one of the primary things that courts look at.
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Can you work well with the other parent? Especially if
you're fighting for something more than traditional. The more time you're
adding, the more that a court really wants to know you are going to work hand
in hand. Maybe not hand in hand, no more handholding, but you're going to work
well with the other parent. If you can't, then the court's going to try and
identify who the problem is. And if you're the problem, you're not going to get
joint, you're not going to get anything close to it. I hope this helped.
Alright, parenting time. It is. Please educate yourself. Hopefully this helped
you to educate yourself on these issues and thanks so much for listening.