Yes, you read that correctly, a divorce selfie. Although selfies are generally reserved for happy or celebratory circumstances, or simply when you want to want to show off a new outfit, divorce selfies are quickly becoming the latest social media trend. Similar to divorce cakes, parties and dresses, divorce selfies are a celebration of the finality of the divorce process. However, unlike parties, cakes and dresses, which are individual celebrations of the newfound freedom that divorce represents, divorce selfies represent something entirely different. Instead of focusing on bitterness and anger, taking a divorce selfie may be a great way for divorces couples to kindly acknowledge the partnership they once shared while also setting a positive foundation for their future together as co-parents.
At this point, you may be thinking, "That sounds great, but why in the world would I want to take a selfie with my ex-spouse? Why would I want to celebrate my divorce?" Well, divorce selfies are not so much a celebration of divorce, but an acknowledgement that you and your ex-spouse were able to navigate the divorce process while also treating each other with dignity and respect. Not only that, but taking a divorce selfie may be a great way to communicate to you children that you and your ex-spouse plan to work together, as co-parents, to ensure your children are loved and cared for.
With all that said, taking a divorce selfie is not for everyone, and in the end the decision is up to you and your former spouse. Taking a divorce selfie may be trending now, but like so many other aspects of divorce, the decision to take one is a personal choice. Regardless of whether you decide to take part in this latest social media trend, it is important to remember that divorce is hard, but it doesn't have to be nasty. For the sake of your children and your family as a whole, please be respectful and thoughtful in all of your interactions with your ex-spouse or soon to be ex-spouse.