As divorce attorneys, we see couples seek divorce for a myriad of reasons, ranging from financial difficulties to infidelity. Even though divorce is a readily available option for couples who are unable to reconcile their marital problems, many victims of domestic violence in Georgia remain in unhealthy and abusive marriages. The question is: Why?
There is no one size fits all answer to this question, but some common reasons why a woman may remain with an abusive mate include:
1. A belief that her partner will eventually reform his ways.
2. Doubts that she will be able to survive economically or otherwise without her abuser.
3. Fear that her abuser will seek and obtain custody of the children if she leaves.
4. Fear that her abuser will hurt, or even kill, her or her children if she leaves.
5. Lack of child support or adequate child care, prohibiting her from obtaining suitable employment.
Regardless of why a woman may decide to remain in an abusive relationship, one thing is certain - no one deserves to live in fear or suffer abuse at the hands of anyone, especially their significant other. If you know a woman who is currently in an abusive relationship, or if you are have suffered abuse at the hands of your spouse, help is available.
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The Georgia Coalition Against Domestic Violence, Women's Resource Center to End Domestic Violence, and the Georgia Commission of Family Violence are just a sampling of the resources available. Although resources and centers such as the ones previously mentioned are available to help, if you or a loved one is in imminent danger, contact 911 immediately.