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What to Expect at Mediation

Publish Date: 03/31/2025

What Is Mediation?

Mediation is a structured negotiation process facilitated by a neutral third party known as the mediator. Unlike a trial or arbitration, mediation does not result in a legally binding resolution unless both parties voluntarily agree to a settlement. The mediator does not act as a judge and cannot impose a decision. Instead, the mediator guides discussions, encourages compromise, and helps the parties explore solutions. In most Georgia counties, mediation is a mandatory step in Family Law litigation. Viewing mediation as an opportunity to resolve disputes without proceeding to a Final Hearing can make the process more productive and less stressful.

Preparing for Mediation

Preparation is key to a successful mediation. Before the session, you should collaborate with your legal team to:

  • Identify the key issues and goals in your case.
  • Review and collect relevant documents.
  • Draft proposed settlement documents, such as a Child Support worksheet or a Parenting Plan.
  • Gain a deeper understanding of the mediation process and your role in it.

Proper preparation ensures that you enter mediation with clear objectives and the necessary information to negotiate effectively.

Tips for Mediation Day

Mediation can take place in various locations, such as an attorney's office, a county courthouse, or even virtually via platforms like Zoom or Microsoft Teams. Regardless of the setting, here are some tips to ensure a smooth experience:

  • Eat a good breakfast and dress comfortably.
  • Bring a light jacket in case the room is cold.
  • Have snacks on hand, as mediation can last several hours.
  • Bring entertainment, such as a fully charged phone, charger, or reading material. There may be downtime.
  • Ensure you have access to financial documents, including bank accounts, pay stubs, and bills, in case additional financial information is needed.

The Mediation Process

On the day of mediation, you and your attorney will participate either in person or virtually at the designated time. Typically, the parties and their legal teams are placed in separate rooms, a process known as a "caucus." The mediator begins by explaining the ground rules and then initiates the offer and counteroffer process. The Petitioner (the party who filed the action) usually makes the first offer. The mediator conveys offers between the rooms and helps refine proposals.

The negotiation process continues, often through multiple rounds, until either a full agreement is reached or an impasse occurs. If a total agreement is reached, it will be documented and signed. If only some issues are resolved, a "partial agreement" may be documented, and remaining disputes will proceed through litigation. At the end of mediation, each party will pay their share of the mediator's fees, and your attorney will discuss the next steps based on the outcome.

The Role of the Mediator

While the mediator does not decide the case, they play a crucial role in facilitating discussions and guiding the parties toward resolution. Their responsibilities include helping both sides explore potential solutions which address their concerns, challenging and refining proposals to ensure fairness and feasibility, and suggesting alternative solutions.

The mediator also facilitates the exchange of necessary financial information and encourages compromise where possible to promote settlement. By fostering productive discussions, the mediator helps both parties work toward a resolution that meets their needs.

What If Mediation Is Unsuccessful?

Mediation is often the best opportunity to resolve disputes, but it is not the last chance for settlement. If mediation does not result in a full agreement, negotiations can continue between attorneys and parties up until the Final Hearing. The discussions from mediation may serve as a starting point for further negotiations.

Pretrial preparations will begin, including drafting pretrial orders, attending pretrial meetings with the judge, and updating necessary documents. Throughout this process, your legal team will keep you informed on the next steps, deadlines, and any further requirements. Mediation can be an effective way to resolve family law disputes without the stress and expense of a courtroom trial. Being prepared, understanding the process, and maintaining a cooperative mindset can increase the likelihood of reaching a favorable outcome.

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