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I’m Separated from My Spouse. Is It OK to Date?

Tuesday, October 27th, 2015

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Legally speaking, no it is absolutely not OK to date once you separate from your spouse in Georgia. Georgia divorce law does not recognize the concept of “legal separation” that some other states recognize. Thus, even if you have physically separated from your spouse and no longer desire to continue the marital relationship, you are still married according to Georgia law. Any extramarital relationship you engage in (separated or not) may be considered adultery during your divorce.

Legalities aside, if your divorce is not yet final, or if you have yet to formally initiate divorce proceedings, it may be best to consider whether you are emotionally ready to date. Even if you and your estranged spouse are no longer living as husband and wife, until your divorce is final, reconciliation is still a possibility. As Georgia divorce attorneys, it is not uncommon for us to represent individuals in divorce proceedings who ultimately reconcile with their spouse before their divorce becomes final. In fact, unless you are absolutely certain that your marriage is broken with no hope for reconciliation, it may be advisable to use your period to separation to reflect on your marriage and concentrate on your emotional health instead of immediately seeking a new relationship.

More Couples Opting for Extended Separation in Lieu of Divorce

Wednesday, April 9th, 2014

As Georgia divorce attorneys, we have seen firsthand the developing trend of couples opting for extended separation in lieu of divorce. In some instances, the desire to remain married, living in a state of separation, is the result indecisiveness regarding whether divorce is the correct path. In other instances, extended separation in lieu of divorce is utilized by those who do not wish to live in the same marital home as their spouse, but who do not wish to seek a divorce due to moral or religious reasons. However, in the overwhelming number of cases, the motivation to remain married is financial. There are many financial advantages to being married that may no longer be enjoyed by both spouses in the event of divorce, such as certain tax credits or deductions or one spouse’s health insurance coverage.  In fact, for older couples or couples where one spouse has a preexisting medical condition, health coverage alone may be the motivating factor for remaining in a perpetual state of separation. Additionally, it is not uncommon for couples to remain married until the spouse who needs health coverage is eligible for Medicare or until the spouse would qualify to receive a share of the other spouse’s Social Security payment upon divorce.

Although remaining married, yet separated, may be the best option for some couples, it is necessary for any couple considering this option to take certain steps to protect their legal  interests. First, if a couple decides to live in a state of extended separation, it is advisable that they initiate an action for Separate Maintenance. Georgia does not recognize the concept of legal separation, thus if the parties which to have their separated status recognized, they must do so by seeking an order of separate maintenance. This is especially important for spouses who need child support or alimony during the period of extended separation, as initiating a suit for separate maintenance is the only way to receive such awards absent initiating a divorce action. Additionally, couples seeking to live in an extended state of separation should also consider entering into a Post-nuptial or Separate Maintenance Agreement, settling issues such as child support, alimony, and estate matters.

No Legal Separation in Georgia

Thursday, January 30th, 2014

Legal separation is a concept that many are aware of due to media coverage of celebrity or other high profile couples seeking legal separation. Generally couples seek legal separation as a precursor to divorce in order to prepare for the divorce process or to ensure that divorce is the correct alternative. However, unlike some other states, Georgia law does not recognize legal separation. In other words, couples may not seek a legal separation in Georgia.

Although there is not legal separation in Georgia, couples in Georgia who wish to remain married by have their separation legally recognized may take advantage of a legal action called Separate MaintenanceSee O.C.G.A. §§ 19-6-10. Separate Maintenance is similar to a legal separation in that it may be initiated by either spouse when the parties have separated, but it does not result in the dissolution of the marriage. On the other hand, an action for separate maintenance is also similar to a divorce action in that it results in the resolution of certain issues that would be settled in the event of divorce such as alimony, child support or child custody.  See Southward v. Southward, 265 Ga. 671 (1995). If you and your spouse are currently living separately, and would like to have your separation legally recognized while also resolving issues such as alimony and child support, contact your Atlanta Divorce Team.